Blackburn Bits #3 – Books As Gifts & Friendships | #WritingCommunity #Life #Friends

“Friendship is not something you learn in school.  But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.”
– Muhamaad Ali

I loved reading the above so much. In fact, just days ago, I told a friend of mine something someone told me once. They mentioned how when two people meet, although they have a lot in common, they might or might not have something in common with YOU on a deeper level. For instance, a shared experience, a shared memory, etc. This is because that requires time, and when relationships (of all types) start, you don’t have a lot of shared experiences, even though you might or might not have common ground.

But, if you do want to deliberately share experiences and get to know what really makes that person tick, ask them what their favorite movie or book is, perhaps their favorite song, and query them about it in depth. Then, you pick what their favorite movie, book, or song is, and GET TO KNOW THAT by heart. That its paramount to understanding them on a deeper level. This is so crucial on so many levels.

I would argue that a book or movie is better to dive in depth with, only because it offers much more latitude to talk about and explore, together, and that way the friendship can grow. If a song is chosen, or many songs, then that’s fine too.

The whole point is that, sometimes, if you really want to get to know someone, REALLY want to BOND with them, you HAVE to make effort. And see, whether or not this is reciprocated doesn’t matter as much as you doing it, because you truly want to get to know that person on a deeper level. Why? Those that will appreciate it will grow with you and get to know you as you, and those that don’t really put an effort in doing something so meaningful with you in the first place, probably were never worth your time investment. Either way, its the approach I try to take when I’m truly trying to get to know people as real friends, and something I urge others to consider as well given how much we can gain from it.
***********************************************
Read More:

Blackburn Bits #1: Life & Humor
Blackburn Bits #2: Libraries
***********************************************

About Me:

Noctis Blackburn (aka. Zy Marquiez) is an author, bibliophile, writer, poet, dreamer, star gazer, autodidact, logician, researcher, lover of life, Carmel Macchiatto addict, and more.
Follow on Youtube: Click Here
Follow On Twitter: @NoctisBlackburn | https://twitter.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Noctis Blackburn On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Zy Marquiez On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zy.marquiez/
Follow on Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackburnMemoirs
Follow my Zy Marquiez Pen Name on Facebook: www.facebook.com/AKaleidoscopeOfPossibilities
Add me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Noctis.Blackburn

Learning #Writing Through The Feedback Of Practice | #Poetry #Prose #Poems #WritingCommunity

About Me:

Noctis Blackburn (aka. Zy Marquiez) is an author, bibliophile, writer, poet, dreamer, star gazer, autodidact, logician, researcher, lover of life, Carmel Macchiatto addict, and more.
Follow on Youtube: Click Here
Follow On Twitter: @NoctisBlackburn | https://twitter.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Noctis Blackburn On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Zy Marquiez On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zy.marquiez/
Follow on Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackburnMemoirs
Follow my Zy Marquiez Pen Name on Facebook: www.facebook.com/AKaleidoscopeOfPossibilities
Add me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Noctis.Blackburn

Mom | #Poetry #Prose #Poem

Mom
___
The heavens flashed
in shades of lightning,
with Mother nature’s whispers of thunder
caressing the land –
reverberations felt through
the lurid landscape of life.

Thunderbolts soon after
begin painting the countryside
one color at a time, one flash at a time,
with the brightest shades of white
vibrant blue and iridescent purple
all fusion constantly
and crashing from above,
flashing relentlessly
through the night
like X-Mas tree lights,
in a majestic light-show
Zeus himself
admires from above.

Deep in the horizon,
a newfound day looms,
and though the storm
will always end
and remake itself anew,
Mother nature herself
will always smile
for it knows her son above
Zeus, learned his tricks from her,
but at this moment
it was her turn
to steal the show.
________
Noctis Blackburn ©
________
Photo Credit: Instagram

About Me:

Noctis Blackburn (aka. Zy Marquiez) is an author, bibliophile, writer, poet, dreamer, star gazer, autodidact, logician, researcher, lover of life, Carmel Macchiatto addict, and more.
Follow on Youtube: Click Here
Follow On Twitter: @NoctisBlackburn | https://twitter.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Noctis Blackburn On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Zy Marquiez On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zy.marquiez/
Follow on Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackburnMemoirs
Follow my Zy Marquiez Pen Name on Facebook: www.facebook.com/AKaleidoscopeOfPossibilities
Add me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Noctis.Blackburn

Letters Under My Pillow | #Poetry #Poems #Prose #Love #Romance #CreativeWriting #WritingCommunity

Letters Under My Pillow

She leaves lucent
Love letters
glistening resplendently
with her stardust essence,
written in the most
thunderously passionate words
beneath my pillow,
spelled out
with “I Miss You”
from her luscious lips,
containing a kaleidoscope of kisses
from her halcyon heart,
and the most powerful embraces
from her supernova
of a starlight soul.

Noctis Blackburn ©

Photo Credit:
Deviant Art User: BitterSweetVenom

*********************
About Me:

Noctis Blackburn (aka. Zy Marquiez) is an author, bibliophile, writer, poet, dreamer, star gazer, autodidact, logician, researcher, lover of life, Carmel Macchiatto addict, and more.
Follow on Youtube: Click Here
Follow On Twitter: @NoctisBlackburn | https://twitter.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Noctis Blackburn On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Zy Marquiez On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zy.marquiez/
Follow on Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackburnMemoirs
Follow my Zy Marquiez Pen Name on Facebook: www.facebook.com/AKaleidoscopeOfPossibilities
Add me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Noctis.Blackburn

Oasis Of Darkness | #Darkness #Poetry #Poem #Prose #Writing Community

Oasis Of Darkness
______________

Darkness
became the oasis
that brought my sullen spirit respite
and allowed me to convalesce
in a way that
only the shadows
that have been burned viciously
by the light
could ever truly
comprehend.

Noctis Blackburn ©

___________________________________________________

About Me:
Noctis Blackburn (aka. Zy Marquiez) is an author, bibliophile, writer, poet, dreamer, star gazer, autodidact, logician, researcher, lover of life, Carmel Macchiatto addict, and more.
Follow on Youtube: Click Here
Follow On Twitter: @NoctisBlackburn | https://twitter.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Noctis Blackburn On Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/NoctisBlackburn
Follow Zy Marquiez On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zy.marquiez/
Follow on Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TheBlackburnMemoirs
Follow my Zy Marquiez Pen Name on Facebook: www.facebook.com/AKaleidoscopeOfPossibilities
Add me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Noctis.Blackburn